子女的榮耀還是父母的榮耀?

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子女成績名列前茅、當選模範生、公開授獎表揚、考上理想志願...。都是父母親引以為傲的榮耀。

父母總覺得,子女在自己身教、言教下悉心栽培,所以成材是父母的榮耀;不成材,便是自己沒教好。父母在認定成材不成材分際的拿捏及角度上或有失準。

成長中的孩子,天生擁有自我學習能力及教育受教資源,現在網域、電視,快速的3C資訊鏈讓孩子多元學習。成就未必是由父母全盤掌握。

價值觀建立的重要度,超越以往單純的垂直學習網。
早熟同儕間的影響力,在叛逆期扮演舉足輕重角色。
金錢誘惑、毒品認知、是非辨別更是即早教育的重要課題。

父母除了道德觀、價值觀教育外,只是儘可能為其挑選最適的學習環境,使其立於正軌,而非ㄧ再指望子女達成父母的期待,來成就榮耀。

父母教育得好與否,跟孩子自身努力,恰如北回歸線般ㄧ線分界,也是ㄧ線之隔爾爾...
作父母的也應要求自己成為子女的榮耀,作為子女榜樣,相得益彰、相互榮耀。

我想

唯有ㄧ直走在人生的正途上,擁有是非判斷力及正確價值觀,才是彼此間最大的榮耀。


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